By far trust is the easiest thing to loose and the hardest thing to get back. Without it any and all relationships in life will fail.
I have been blessed to find a partner who i have spent over 5 wonderful years with, and that would not have happened if we did not trust each other. I hear at least once a day, either on; social media, friends, family, radio stations, and televised sources about do’s and don’ts concerning relationships. It drives me insane!
Understand that all relationships are different and everyone going into a relationship wants different things and that is okay. Just be open and honest with one another and talk through problems, and most importantly keep the conversation between you and your lover. Larger problems occur when couples start bringing best friends into an argument that they have no business being in.
I am not saying that you can’t have friends, or that you can’t talk to your friends about your relationship. I am saying that speaking to your friends about your partner while you are angry and essentially trash talking them is a shore way to make things worse, and it shows a lack of respect for the person you are in the relationship with.
Here is the only honest advise i can give you (for what it’s worth), trust your partner and trust yourself. Stop letting others who have no business in your relationship tell you what you should or shouldn’t be doing. Do not let their own insecurities rub off and cause tension between you and your significant other.